I’m sure you are familiar with this age-old debate: “If a tree falls in the forest, and there is no one there to hear it fall, did it make a sound?”
If sound was defined as only what we hear, then there would be no debate; the answer would be no.
However, sound is not just what we hear. Sound consists of vibrations traveling through space, and those vibrations are caused by waves from some sort of action or force. So, the tree itself — while standing upright and still in the forest — does not make sound. But when it falls, its movement and impact with the ground does indeed make a sound — lots of sound, in fact!
Now, what in the world does this have to with hearing difficulties, brain function, and the title of this article? Plenty, because of the matter of assumption.
We assume that if no one was nearby to hear the tree fall, that it did not make a noise.
And for many people with hearing loss, they often assume that if they did not hear what was said to them, that it wasn’t said at all. After all, their brain has no recollection of someone saying something to them, so it obviously was never said. Right? Wrong!
There are many instances of couples who come to my office with one of the two — whether they admit it or not — having hearing/communication issues, while the other is growing increasingly frustrated with their partner’s “forgetfulness.”
But the spouse didn’t “forget.” He/she may have never heard what was said to them in the first place. And since the brain cannot remember what it did not hear, that person also becomes frustrated with the perceived lack of communication from the partner. Left untreated, this is an unhealthy situation that can continue on a downward spiral.
The good news is that treatment options exist. When I sit down and have a conversation with a couple (or family members, such as a parent and an adult child), I start by pointing out to the patient and companion that while we hear with our ears, we listen with our brain.
To fix the brain/memory issues, we first need to treat the ears, oftentimes with the use of hearing aid technology. After that, there may be need for consultations and brain exercise programs. It is something that can be accomplished, but the first step is really up to you. Make an appointment with a AudigyCertified™ provider who is not only an expert in diagnostic assessment and hearing aid technology, but who is also educated and trained in the relationship between the hearing system and human brain function.
